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基本信息
·出版社：Celestial Arts; Rev Upd edition
·页码：307 页码
·出版日：1996年
·ISBN：9780890878118
·条码：9780890878118
·装帧：其他
内容简介
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Boys need to know three things: Who's the boss? What are the rules? And, are you going to enforce them? Sons need firm, kind leadership. One of the few parenting books that husbands steal from their wives, this is the straight-forward, easy-to-read family bookshelf standard with over 250,000 copies in print. The Eliums continue to chart new territory with our updated, expanded, and revised edition. Look for discussions on:
-boys and Attention Deficit Disorder
-teaching boys to nurture themselves and others at home
-creating a balance between work and home
-the maturing relationship between mothers and sons
-a resource section for parents of gay sons and other sexual identity issues
-new and updated parenting resources
-an index for quick refernece and more!
作者简介
As a transpersonal educator and workshop leader, Jeanne Elium challenges parents to put aside limiting stereotypes and gender roles in order to see their child through a wider lens. Don Elium is a marriage, family, and child counselor in private practice. He works extensively with men and women in recovery from the post-traumatic stress of childhood abuse with a special interest in healing the wounds of father/daughter relationships. Both Jeanne and Don are known for their powerful seminars that have brought healing to thousands of individuals and families. They also host the popular parenting radio talk show, "Sons and Daughters-for the Bold and Audacious Parent."
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书评
From Publishers Weekly
In this wide-ranging volume, the Eliums (he is a marriage, family and child counselor; she leads support groups) explore both sides of the nature vs. nurture argument. They believe that the male sex hormone testosterone is the root of both male development and behavior. They also emphasize the need boys have for a strong male role model. Some of their discussions may strike readers as too New Age or vague to be of use, but still, there is solid information here. What the authors do best is to illustrate how both mothers and fathers need to set limits for their sons and enforce those limits when necessary. They do this by citing examples and case studies, which will stir recognition in many families. The authors remind parents that they, too, will have to undergo some self-examination and changes of attitude in dealing with their sons. A handy index of publications, networks, and organizations that can help parents is appended. The Eliums'' book may not be the final say-so in child-rearing, but it''s an interesting signpost along the way.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
From Library Journal
While much has been written about raising children in general, the authors, both family counselors, focus specifically on the challenge of raising sons. They trace the history of pretechnological societies where rites of passage turned boys into men, noting that no such rites exist today in our society. Indeed, by puberty many boys have no father to look up to. The Eliums single out testosterone as the powerful driving force behind the actions of boys and men. Like Robert Bly''s Iron John ( LJ 11/15/90), this book explores a new masculine identity, but from the standpoint of the parents'' role. Included is a guide to the psyche of sons from birth to maturity. It is recommended for collections serving parents, teachers, counselors, and big brothers.
- Linda Beck, Indian Valley P.L., Telford, Pa.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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