What's the most important things in the family?

What is the most important things in the family? How to maintain a stable and happy family? The family, as a basic composed unit of modern society, is affected by so many external factors, such as money, power, status, background and so on. Sometimes we all neglect of its internal factors such as feeling, obligation, responsibility, individuality etc. But in our real lives, which is more important both the internal and external?Happy families are all alike, but unfortunate families have their own differences. It is true. So the family problems are too complicated to talk about it correctly and clearly. But above all, in my opinions, the responsibility is playing the key role in a family, being responsible for himself, for spouse, for the whole family and the society. It hardly imagines a person who is not responsible for the family will have a happy family. When we step into the marriage palace it means that we should do everything for the family, moreover, sometimes sacrifice something for the family, exactly not sacrifice, should be called dedication. I have been touched deeply by Xiaoxue’s words as follows when she talked about her dreams (I am sorry for quote your saying, Xiaoxue): “But I ask myself whether I could have another choice at present, no, I couldn’t. on one hand, I am not as young as before, on the other hand, my family needs me, I need them as well.” I think it is responsibility, of course duplex.I have pondered over the problem about responsibility in the family for long period after I heard and saw many families were separated. Though they probably had their own reasons and excuse, the majority of divorced cases are due to the responsibility. Substantially the responsibility is not isolated, especially, to large extent, the responsibility in the family fountains form the love, the love to your spouse, to your child, to your family and to your life. If no love, it is sure that there is no responsibility. So the essence of responsibility is love anyway.The time elapses, everyone will be changed, everything like the surrounding, the mind, the attitude, the life style will be changed, even the love that should have been remembered to the end of life may be faded or changed, too, but the unique unchangeable thing is responsibility. Especially in unromantic life the responsibility will be crucial.There is a picture that often emerges in my brain: A future fall, at a dusk, the golden leaves fly in the wind, thick leaves pave the silent road, the two old person, shoulder by shoulder, hand in hand, are walking along the street. I hope when I am old someday, I found that the lady by my side is still you and you found that the gentlemen by your side is still me, what a perfect life, what a happy family. Hand in hand for ever(执子之手，与子携老), what a beautiful love story.

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