Learn to forgive
Yesterday afternoon,I took my son to a shop to buy him some small food.It was shinning though a little cold,he was singing as walking all the way.I knew that was his big time.
"Good afternoon,aunt Lan", a sweet greeting came out of my son's mouth,then i saw that woman who was his child-care worker when he was in nursery.I didn't expect he would greet to her.Why?? I could not forget what she had done to my son,so I would never talk to her since that day she injured a five-year-old boy cruelly.
It happened four years ago.One day after lunch,all kids were supposed to lie in their bed no matter wether they felt like or not.My son seemed not to be sleepy,so he was playing in his bed.Then the woman that was always called aunt by those kids came up to my son,holding his ear from his bed,dragging it to their toilet,keeping him standing there for several hours.I didn't know that till i picked him up home.I was cooking as he came to tell me his ear ache.I saw a crack on his ear,with some blood near it,the ear seemed to be dropping.What happened? i asked him,thought he fell from some where.But his statement made me shock and angry,i would rather trust he was lying to me,but after i inquired others kids in his class,they all told me it was true.
I was too angry to say a word that night.The second day,i wrote a letter to the leader of their nursery:Dear aunt,every morning when my son goes to your nursery singing the song "nursery is my home,aunt is my mother,she loves me,i love her",I truelly beleive the song is a good reflection of your nursery,and i trust my kid safe in this garden.but i wonder what kind of thing which is so unforgivable that would make a mother injure a small kid??? The following night they came to my home and say apologize to me and my son.What they said could not remedy the crack both in my son's ear and my heart.
"Mum,what are you thinking?" my son asked me,"Nothing.by the way,have you forgotten what she has ever done on you? don't you hate her?" "No,i don't,it has passed.Why should i remember it?"Yes,maybe his answer is too simple,yet,it's true.Many thing happened and will happen,some is happy,some unhappy,we should learn to forget some unhappy thing in our life,if we always keep those irritating thing in heart and mind,we would miss much happy time.Remember:for every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
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