九，别为你自己和别人下定论，无比重要。你所看到听到的可能只是一面，为这个失去可能的朋友，很不值。
十，如果你发现很久了你一直是一个人去食堂吃饭或者去上自习，别在意，大学里一个人是正常的，你觉得孤独？你的朋友是怕你觉得你没有自由的空间，所以别以为你没有朋友。
十一，很多事情别人通知你了，要说谢谢，没有通知你，不要责怪，因为那些事你其实应该自己弄清楚。
十二,"我请你吃饭"之类的话不要乱说,因为所有人都会当真,不管你自己怎么想,大学里请人吃饭是很平常的事,几乎连请一个自己不怎么认识的人吃饭都很正常.
參考答案:九，Be not that yourself and others are issue final conclusion , extremely important. Be what you see possibility however one aspect hearing , be that this loses the possible friend , do not worth very much.
十，If you find that very long you are always that one people studies by self , not caring about on going to a mess hall eat or going to , one people is that you feel lonely regularly in university? Your friend is to be afraid that you feel you do not have free space, therefore not believing you do not have a friend.
十一，Others has informed you of , self has made much thing clear if talking about thanking you , not informing of you , not blaming , ought to in fact because of those wait upon you.
十二，" I invite you to dinner " and the like words does not make irresponsible remarks , lettuce ends really , no because of proprietor city to make an appointment with dry-up Fu acute hearing? That inviting person to dinner in university is a very common thing, is almost the company invites a self not very know person to dinner all very regular.