在你的立场下
in ones shoes 口语，在某某人的立场下看问题
比如：if you were in my shoes, you would know how hard it could be.
如果你是我（你站在我的角度），你就知道那有多难了
记得growing pain（成长的烦恼）里面，mike考试作弊被抓（其实被冤枉），然后他老妈不相信mike没作弊能考这么高分，里面就有这么一句：
You should know, if you were in my shoes............