Girls favor bad boys?
The Chinese saying seems to be justified based on the numerical cases in our real lives. However, I felt that it is my responsibility to address the authentic reasons underlying the ostensible surface.
The main reason why girls might scamper off from the good boys, is not that they dislike good boys’ merits and deem them dull. Instead, they just enjoy the surge of feeling of love, which they can gain from bad boys. Some bad boys might act like drones in their lives, but they are always able to utilize some nifty props to hit on girls. They know when they should present a beautiful red rose to girls, when they should use their awkward mixology to make a cup of manifesto for girls, and when they should hold the girls’ hands without saying a word. Bad boys normally will not falter when the words “I love you” are needed, and bad boys are professional in plying girls with small surprises again and again. Considered from some angles, life is repetitive and somewhat frustrating, so these gadgetries are always essential to run the complicated machine called “love”. Some good boys may stand out with a very righteous manifesto, “girls will only love boys because of their consideration and understanding.” Yes, this is always a justifiable doctrine. But, good boys should rethink what I sketched above and then answer the question “do bad boys’ props fall out of this doctrine? In other words, if good boys sealed a fine Burgundy wine and put it into the refrigerator, can they expect their neighbors smell the wine’s bouquet?
To lose the love sometimes can strike a good boy at the end of his tether. But instead of shirking their own faults, they should start to introspect and avoid incurring further losses in the future. They should learn to touch the softest part of a girl’s heart rather then equip their brains with a porcupine's panoply of quills, refusing to have any detailed spiritual communication with their lovers. When a quarrel arises, they should learn to show their care, consideration and understanding to their lovers rather preach at them with abominable doctrines. One thing good boys need to remember, to be a Mr. Right without making mistakes can not readily suffice for all girls’ needs. We guys need more and so do they.
Some people might have another question, why some girls fell in love with those bad boys who never show their consideration and understanding? A highly possible answer is that, those girls are spoiled by the fervency of their wooers. Therefore, when they meet the apathetic guys on the streets, with their wrong concept of “true man”, it is unsurprising that they will fall in love with bad boys of that kind. These girls are living in the fairy land, and will finally fall down to the real world sooner or later.
To conclude, what fascinates girls are not bad boys themselves, but something which is more commonly observed from bad boys than good boys. Girls enjoy the feeling of being taken care of, the feeling of being loved and the feeling of being surprised. So, good boys should stop repeating the indefensible excuses like “I am too shy to do this or that”, “a true man should not do the trivial things to amuse girls”, and “these things are too cheesy that I cannot do it.” To care, understand and love a girl, under whatever situation, by whatever means, will never disobey the principles of being a good boy.
