My dear friend,
Thank you for your leave messages in QQ, which always bring a surprise to me.
Undoubtedly, you come up with a very good and hot topic here----- cyber-love. I
’m not sure whether you have been through it or not before. In response, I’d
like to share my thoughts with you on it, though it is totally foreign to me.
Objectively speaking, cyber-love is neither good nor bad. As we all know, every coin has two sides. So does cyber-love. It also has its merits as well as demerits. As for me, I would rather pour my love to someone whom I can see, speak
to, stay with than a virtual person in the invisible cyber world. The cyber-love is usually based on people’s imagination instead of the reality. Consequently
, it seems as beautiful and sweet as a red red rose in people’s mind. However,
it is quite frail without the nutritious earth around it. The rootless rose is likely to die someday. So don’t stake all your pure love on cyber-live, which is
uncertain and beyond your control at times.
Here is a vivid example for that. When I was a university student, one of my
roommates experienced a deep-rooted cyber-love with a so-called postgraduate in
Zhejiang University. It was unimaginable how deeply they loved each other. They
exchanged photographs, called until the mid night, much less sent a flood of short messages. But, they never saw each other face to face, due to the hectic study and long distance. Unexpectedly, as a couple of months elapsed, the man gave up under the pressure of his family. ( it might be nothing but his excuse, I guess), which hurt my friend to the bone. You see, it’s far form a happy ending in
life.
Admittedly, some young people do meet via internet, step into marriage, and live a content life. But it is comparatively rare, isn’t it? Moreover, it will not take place until they stand many tests in life to reach thorough understanding and trust.
I sincerely wish everyone can stay and live with their sweetheart forever, no
matter how they meet first. In addition, I want to suggest that it is not bad to make some worthwhile friends on the internet, but please look before leap when
confronted with cyber-love.
I’m afraid I make the topic serious. Anyway human being is an intelligent and complicated animal. And you never guess what sort of person you are talking to
, right? So take care of your love, for it is much more precious than any jewel
in the world!
In brief, that’s my immature opinion. May I know yours? I’m looking forward
to your email. Many thanks.
Sincerely,
Athena
