Lady, You Cannot Afford It …
I solemnly declare that I have no intention, not a slight, to offend any of my male forum friends!
It is Google’s romantic story that reminds me of something concerning social moral concepts towards extramarital sexual relations. Unfortunately, women are always the aggrieved party almost in all countries though we all know there must be a man and a woman involved in an illicit love affair. Women are injured and insulted either physically or spiritually by such affairs especially in our eastern culture background countries.
I learned from my favorite program Discovery that male animals desire to pass as
many of its genes to its offspring by possessing as many females as possible.
Human being, though we have thousands of years of civilization history but it is
nothing compared with the millions of years evolution history, has still remained animal habitual nature to a certain extent. It is natural and easier for males to have sexual relations to any females they encounter by chance and they do
not have to bear the possible consequences thereafter such as being pregnant or
bear social discrimination.
Here is a story that illustrates so well how males regard their legal spouses and their lovers.
A millionaire was dying; he was leaving his final words to his wife and passing
all his wealth on his only son. After that his face relaxed in a smile. However, there was still someone in the depth of his heart – his lover. He told his
wife the whole story and asked for forgiveness and then asked to meet the lover
for the last time. The lover came with tears. The dying millionaire gave out all his strength and said: “I’m dying but I have something special for you,” then he fetch out a piece of yellow leaf, continued “This is the leaf that was on your hair when we met for the first time and I have carefully kept, cherished
all those years. Now I present it to you again and hope you would keep it forever.”
To love and be loved is such a pleasant feeling, an intense longing that everyone, young or aged, yearns for and a temptation that no one can easily withstand.
However, a wise mature person would make a clever choice when facing such a fantastic romance since life is so easily slipped by without anyone else's awareness
. Can we afford such a dear cost of wasting our lives on a destined hopeless romance?
Jeannie