Mothers are happy to love and care for their children. These things aren't the hurting sacrifices you may think they are. They are full of hope and love. YOu will find out when you are parents that what I say is true.
Mothers want the best outcome for the children, especially for their health and happiness and excellent future life. Mothers are unhappy when their children are unhappy.
Therefore, if my child is very unhappy for a long time because I died, I will be unhappy and wish I could explain that I have gone on to other interesting places and a new life, and that I am happy and also will welcome them with my deep love when they come where I am.
It is not good to sorrow too much when you lose someone you dearly love. They need to be able to go on and progress without always being pulled back by your sorrow. They want you to be happy and well, and not clouded and grieving all the time. There is a time to get over your grief and it should never be prolonged because you think it would make them happy and it is your duty.
Would your loving mother or father, your dear grandmother or grandfather, or your lover, your true friend, or your wife or husband want you to grieve in this world, and to have the radiance of your heart clouded? No! The one who truly love you wants to see you happy, productive and well, and finding your positive way through this world. Isn't it true?
This doesn't change when they put their body down and go on to the next level of life and development. Don't hold your loved ones in the next world back by grieving too much for them. Just pray for their happiness and progress. Do well here because they will know it and will try to help you if they can, and will be glad.
Loving greetings to all, Mary
