Being Single in a Couple's World: How to Be Happily Single While Looking for Love (平装)

基本信息出版社:Free Press (1999年4月20日)外文书名:在两人世界中尽享单身平装:240页正文语种:英语ISBN:0684852357条形码:9780684852355产品尺寸及重量:21.4 x 13.9 x 1.8 cm ; 214 gASIN:0684852357商品描述内容简介在线阅读本书

YouCanBe Single and HappyWhether you are actively looking for a mate or have decided that marriage isn't what you want right now, psychotherapists Xavier Amador and Judith Kiersky can help you deal with the problems that come from being single in a couples' world.Drawing on years of clinical experience and research with both single and married clients, Amador and Kiersky have identified the five common stumbling blocks that can get in the way of enjoying singlehood. Taking a careful look at the obstacles that cause single people the most pain, the authors have developed a four-step plan to help you achieve balance and happiness -- whether or not you stay single. And the first and most challenging step is to stop buying into old-fashioned ideas about singlehood and marriage.Combining clear advice and vivid case examples,Being Single in a Couples' Worldgives all of us the tools we need to find our way to a healthier self and more meaningful relationships.编辑推荐Amazon.com

Sometimes when you look around, it seems as if the entire world is coupled up. Family, friends, that cute twosome holding hands walking down the street, everyone is either married or in a serious, committed relationship. If you're not one of those people, the world can seem a lonely place. But why is that? Why can't a person be both singleandhappy?Xavier Amador, coauthor ofWhen Someone You Love Is Depressed, and Judith Kiersky attack this question in this clear and wonderfully written book. Using case studies and drawing on years of clinical work as psychologists and professors, the authors investigate the basis of both men and women's dissatisfaction as singles. Tracing the roots of the stigma of aloneness, they examine the obstacles that prevent singles from being content--everything from family and friends to fear and ambivalence. They then describe the four stages of being single, and finally, they give you the tools that will enable you to "be single in the present." Unlike other self-help books dealing with singledom, the goal of this book is not to get you married; it's to figure out why you're single and to help you gain balance and happiness as you are.Whether you've never married or are divorced or widowed, whether you wish to remain single or to eventually have a meaningful relationship, this book will guide you in bypassing the "cultural scripts" that demand you need a mate to be fulfilled. The authors show that life can be great on your own.--Jenny Brown--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.